No more playing small. No more staying silent. No more shrinking to make others comfortable.
A transformative 5-Week workshop for BIPOC Women & Femmes to reclaim your voice, take up space unapologetically, and lead out loud—no matter who’s in the room.
We start February 5, 2025. You in?
*These clients worked with me in various containers including coaching, workshops, and consulting.
Whether at work, in our businesses, in relationships, or at the bus stop, most of us are holding back.
And of course we would. Systemic oppression, inequities, bias, exclusion, and societal conditioning are constantly telling us to shut up, stay small, and play by their rules.
When we do that we abandon ourselves piece by piece. Our dreams shrink, our boundaries blur, and our confidence crumbles under the weight of silence and lack of self-expression.
We stay stuck in cycles of overwork, people-pleasing, and perfectionism -- we believe that if we just stay quiet, do the most (to the point of burnout), or avoid rocking the boat, we’ll be seen and valued one day.
But, beloved, the cost is too damn high.
And it’s not just us who pay the price. It ripples out into our communities, our relationships, and future generations.
When we stay small, we keep oppressive systems intact.
When we silence ourselves, we teach those around us to do the same.
When we shrink, the world loses the leadership, vision, love, and liberation that only we can offer.
So what’s the alternative…
You need to use your voice to defy the status quo and the limiting beliefs that make it impossible for women of color to reach their full potential.
It starts with prioritizing your wellness so that you have the energy and capacity to speak for yourself, for your work, and for other people.
When you can set boundaries to protect your energy and time, speak for the value and impact you bring, ask for the necessary support you need to grow and create impactful relationships… damn… sky’s the limit.
No more chasing perfection. Perfection is the tool of the oppressor.
No more silence in spaces where your voice belongs.
No more fitting into others’ expectations.
No more shrinking to make others comfortable.
No more fear of being too much. Your fullest expression of self matters.
No more people-pleasing. It’s time to honor YOUR needs.
No more feeling like an imposter. It’s time to fucking own it.
No more saying yes when you really mean no. Your boundaries are sacred.
No more settling for less than you deserve. You are worthy, period.
No more holding back your dreams. Because they are the blueprint for the world we need.
It’s time to catalyze some soul-moving, fear-confronting, values-embodying, do-the-damn-thing-daring, and life-upgrading changes in your life.
Activate Your Voice is a liberation movement. It’s a 5-week workshop for BIPOC women and femmes who are sick and tired of playing by rules that don’t serve them.
Our first workshop session is February 5, 2025 @12pm-1:30pm PT, and we meet every week same time after that.
This is an invitation to speak your truth with clarity, set boundaries rooted in self-love, and create a life aligned with your deepest values.
I know speaking up and being witnessed in new ways can be scary, especially for women of color and “the only’s” in the room.
It helps to not have to go at this alone.
Activate Your Voice is a workshop with 5 live sessions (yes, all sessions will be recorded!) that include mini-lessons, community breakouts, and collective wisdom sharing.
As you reflect, learn, and integrate your lessons, you will also have the opportunity to take up space, celebrate your amazing self, process, and get coached.
To activate your voice, you must know who you are and what you stand for. We begin by connecting with and honoring your cultural, ancestral, and unique wisdom to craft an authentic leadership vision.
🌱 What we'll get into:
Identify where your voice has been silenced or undervalued by societal and familial expectations.
Understand how internalized systemic oppression impact your confidence.
Define your core values and leadership foundation.
Explore who you are, your voice, and your vision.
The way you speak to yourself shapes your outer experiences. This week, we dismantle self-doubt and unlearn harmful narratives to build a foundation of self-compassion, courage, and self-trust.
🌱 What we'll get into:
Uncover the 4 “Inner Hater” mindsets holding you back.
Shift negative self-talk into affirming, self-honoring narratives
Practice reprogramming your mind to see—and believe in—your inherent worth.
Intentional restoration is a radical act of self-love. This week, you’ll release inherited beliefs that no longer serve you and root yourself in your true power. Through reflection, self-honoring practices, and celebration, you’ll reconnect with your full brilliance, water yourself, and embrace your unique gifts.
🌱 What we'll get into:
Design a personalized restoration plan to ground you in moments of doubt.
Honoring your inner child, past self, current self, and future self.
Recognize and own your unique gifts through the "Own Your Stank" exercises, reclaiming what makes you one of one.
Speaking up for your needs is what this is all about, friend. This week, you’ll build the confidence to advocate for yourself and practice negotiation strategies and skills that help you ask for (and receive) what you deserve. No more over-explaining, over-giving, or second-guessing yourself.
🌱 What we'll get into:
Naming your desires with clarity and courage—because you’re done waiting for permission.
Exploring the boundaries you can set to protect your time, energy, and peace.
Learn RYL’s effective ‘C-Sweet Negotiation’ and ‘Equal Energy Exchange Negotiation’ frameworks
Exploring the boundaries you can set to protect your time, energy, and peace.
Practice bold self-advocacy in real-life role-plays, including handling pushback.
Your voice has the power to create ripple effects far beyond yourself. In this final week, you’ll claim your leadership voice and envision the impact you’re ready to make.
🌱 What we'll get into:
Design ways to amplify your voice and build aligned, meaningful relationships.
Visualize the ripple effects of your leadership in your community and beyond.
Create a personalized action plan for expanding your impact and continuing your transformation journey.
Not the same.
You’ll experience a whole-person transformation by gaining clarity, confidence, and practical tools to live a fully expressed life. (And how many BIPOC women and femmes do you know that can say they’re living a fully expressed life? Not many, I’m guessing…although there’s about to be more after this!)
You’ll walk away with:
Radical Self-Compassion: Silence the inner critic and replace self-doubt with self-love. Develop a soft life grounded in self-tenderness, resilience, and joy.
Integrity-Driven Leadership Skills: Lead with authenticity in any context, whether it’s managing a team, running a business, or navigating personal relationships.
Bold Self-Advocacy & Negotiation Skills: Learn to ask for what you deserve with courage, clarity, and confidence—advocating for your needs in both personal and professional spaces.
Amplified Visibility & Impact Strategies: Embrace the importance of being seen and heard. Create ripple effects that inspire change in your community and beyond.
Authentic Connection & Community: Build a supportive village of like-minded BIPOC women and femmes who witness, affirm, and uplift your journey.
Note: These outcomes are applicable in various settings, from career advancement to business and personal relationships.
🙌🏽 Leaders & Managers navigating predominantly white & male workspaces, who want to redefine leadership in the workplace by leading with integrity, setting boundaries, and inspiring others without compromising their values in every role and level
🤑 Entrepreneurs & Business Owners seeking the confidence to lead with purpose, make decisions with ease, negotiate boldly, and grow sustainably
🌈 Artists & Creatives who choose to embrace their art unapologetically, create beauty and meaning in a world that often overlooks their magic
📣 Activists & Changemakers who want to amplify their impact, mobilize change, and embody courage for collective care.
🌿 Career Breakers & Sabbatical Takers rediscovering their purpose, their values, and the full expression of themselves.
Whether you’re a leader, entrepreneur, artist, activist, or someone on a career break, this program is your catalyst for change. If you’re ready to take up space, be witnessed, and lead in alignment with your truth, values, and purpose, this program is for you.
I’m a leadership coach for women of color and the founder of Real You Leadership — proud daughter of Filipino immigrants, first-gen kid, and current immigrant myself after moving from the Bay Area to to Oaxaca, Mexico), queer, 4’11” shorty.
I’ve coached over 250+ BIPOC women & femme leaders and trained thousands more to reclaim their life direction, lead unapologetically, and show up as their REAL selves in every space they occupy.
Through one-on-one coaching, community-based programs, and workshops, I’ve supported clients to:
Quit their 9-to-5 and launch purpose-driven businesses
Negotiate 5-figure raises and land dream roles
Embody their creative brilliance and make a living from their art
Take bold steps toward building movements that amplify intentionally marginalized voices
Heal, reconnect with their values, and rediscover their purpose during career breaks and sabbaticals
Here’s the truth: Liberation isn’t a solo act. It’s a collective movement. And historically, Black, Indigenous, and women of color have been kept from reaching our full potential—our earning potential, our leadership potential, and our fulfillment potential. We’ve been sidelined, shut out of rooms, and forced to navigate racist, sexist systems designed to limit us.
Not anymore.
That’s why I’m on a mission to help as many BIPOC women as possible become unfuckwithable in 2025—clear, unapologetic, and unshakable in their leadership, vision, and voice. This movement isn’t just about individual wins—it’s about all of us rising together.
This workshop series is one step toward that mission. It’s a space for you to activate your voice, build unshakable boundaries, and lead with confidence everywhere you show up. The more of us who do this work together, the stronger we become.
I would be honored to have you join us.
Because here’s what what I believe with all my heart:
Here's why:
We honor the unique, nuanced layers of your identity that shape how you navigate relationships, your work, and the systems of oppression we all operate under. Your lived experience is rich and multifaceted--and we know that’s where your brilliance lies.
Instead of overwhelming leaps, we focus on small, steady shifts that build lasting confidence and sustainable growth. You’ll experiment with micro changes, break old cycles, and create self-advocacy practices that stick with your beyond our time together.
This program isn’t about empty affirmations. We keep it real about the biases, challenges, and inequities BIPOC face, addressing them head-on to create lasting change. It's about deep self-connection, practical tools, and collective wisdom, grounded in your experience.
These aren’t just stuffy workshop lessons and surface-level Q&As. We create space for dynamic, meaningful conversations where you’ll receive personalized guidance, ask bold questions, and refine your voice in real-time.
In a brave, creative, and affirming space, you’ll connect with other BIPOC women and femmes who understand your journey. Together, you’ll share stories, learn from one another, and co-create a community that celebrates you and your growth journey.
Activate Your Voice is your invitation to live fully, lead boldly, and honor all that you are.
February 2025 AYV Schedule
Wed, February 5th @ 12-1:30 pm PT
Wed, Feb 12th @ 12-1:30pm PT
Wed, Feb 19th @ 12-1:30pm PT
Wed, Feb 26th @12-1:30pm PT
Wed, March 5 @ 12-1:30pm PT
Option 1: Core Support
All 5 Live Calls: Grounding, Mini-Lesson, Community Circles & Practices, and Q&A
5 take home workbooks
Recordings of calls
A supportive community of like-minded, -hearted, and -spirited BIPOC leaders
Your Investment: $249
Option 1: Expanded Support
All 5 Live Calls: Grounding, Mini-Lesson, Community Circles & Practices, and Q&A
5 take home workbooks
Recordings of calls
A supportive community of like-minded, -hearted, and -spirited BIPOC leaders
Limited space: Additional 1-hour Q&A for 12 leaders
Your Investment: $349
You can secure your seat in the next group with two options:
Option 1 - Standard Enrollment with Core Support: One full payment of $249 or Two Monthy Payments of $130
Option 2: Expansive Support: One Full Payment of $349 or Two Monthly payments of $180 (bonus 1-hour Q&A is included with this and this option is limited to 12 leaders only)
1st deposit is taken at checkout, and the 2nd payment is taken the following month.
Contact us if you’d like to join and could benefit from a longer payment plan.
Yes! Whether you’re a leader, entrepreneur, artist, activist, or someone on a career break, this program is your catalyst for change. If you’re ready to take up space, be witnessed, and lead in alignment with your truth, values, and purpose, this program is for you.
All good! The live group calls will be recorded and shared with the group.
February 2025 AYV Schedule
Wed, February 5th @ 12-1:30 pm PT
Wed, Feb 12th @ 12-1:30pm PT
Wed, Feb 19th @ 12-1:30pm PT
Wed, Feb 26th @12-1:30pm PT
Wed, March 5 @ 12-1:30pm PT
There’s no cap on liberation.
This space is for as many BIPOC women & femmes as possible to activate their voices in 2025. We’re not here to play small. The more of us reclaiming our power together, the stronger our collective movement becomes.
Unlike small, high-ticket programs, this workshop is designed to be accessible, expansive, and community-driven. While there’s no limit on attendees, you’ll still have space to connect with others during intimate breakout rooms and community discussions.
This is also the lowest-priced group option I’ve ever offered—because this movement isn’t just about individuals. It’s about all of us.
If you’re ready to be part of this collective shift, we’re saving a spot for you.
No. This program is for, created by, and centered around Black, Indigenous, Women, and Femmes of Color. We welcome trans women and non-binary people.
If you don’t identify as a WOC and want to work with us, we invite you to partner with us to bring our coaching to your team. We partner with allies and their teams to create safe and empowering workplaces.
No. We’ve done it in other programs. For this program, we are focusing on Activating Your Voice and the inner work needed for you to speak for your work and the value you bring. Many of these lessons can be applied to professional and biz assets.
YES! If you’re a careerist, we actually encourage you to ask your company first and utilize any professional development funds you have available.
This program will help you grow as a leader. You will improve your communication and connection with your confidence. It’s a win-win for them to invest in your development.
You can email Nadia your questions directly at nadia@realyouleadership.com.
