Coaching for BIPOC Leaders who refuse to shrink.

Advocacy, self-trust, and sustainable leadership on your terms.

I'm Ready!
 
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Leadership isn’t about doing more — it’s about becoming more you.

In our coaching partnership, we let go of the noise, reconnect with your intuition, amplify your strengths, and help you lead in your career and life with more intention, courage, and clarity.

No more self-limiting, no more code-switching, no more avoiding your real desires.

It’s time for your next era of leadership.

This work is for you if:

  • You are a BIPOC woman or femme in leadership, business, or creative work

  • You’re done contorting yourself to be palatable, pleasing, or to “keep the peace”

  • You’re tired of being undervalued, underpaid, and overworked

  • You want to self-advocate without costing your integrity or nervous system

  • You’re ready to lead in ways that actually reflect your values

  • You’re open to going outside of your comfort zone to grow

  • You’re willing to be honest, reflective, and accountable

  • You’re ready to say your deepest dreams outloud and make them a reality

This is not for you if:

  • You want quick hacks or scripts without self-responsibility

  • You’re looking to be told exactly what to do

  • You’re not ready to unlearn patterns that keep you small, silent, and stagnant

If you feel any resonance reading this, that’s your invitation. I see you.

And I’d be delighted and honored to walk beside you in this season of your career and leadership journey.

Step into your next era of leadership
 
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Custom 1-on-1 Leadership Coaching for WOC Leaders

When we work together, clients often experience:

  • Clearer decision-making rooted in deep self-trust

  • Stronger communication without over-explaining and second-guessing

  • The ability to advocate for themselves, negotiate, and be witnessed without shame

  • A release of perfectionism and people-pleasing patterns

  • Leadership that feels aligned, embodied, joyful, and sustainable

This work shows up everywhere, because how we show up in one place of our life, shows up in another:

at work, in relationships, and in how you take up space and impact the world.


Anything is possible:

I’ve supported thousands of Black, Indigenous, and women of color leaders to do extraordinary things like:

  • Negotiate 5-figure raises, land dream roles, and promotions

  • Launch and grow purpose-driven businesses joyfully

  • Embody their creative brilliance and lead unapologetically in rooms that weren’t designed for us — boardrooms, leadership teams, you name it

  • Support global leaders in cultivating human-centered, people-first teams and equitable work environments

  • Step into influence, authority, and visibility without losing themselves

Let's Work Together
 
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How I Coach


Hey, I’m Nadia De Ala, and I’m so damn glad you’re here.

I coach at the intersection of:

  • leadership and negotiation

  • values-aligned decision-making

  • sustainable growth that doesn’t burn you out

  • nervous system awareness as you navigate conflict and “risk”

  • lived experience navigating power dynamics

My approach is honest, reflective, and strategic. We slow down enough to integrate your learnings throughout our time together, and stay focused enough to create real change.

This is not about becoming someone else.
It’s about leading from who you already are.

I don’t tell you what to do. I support you in making clear, resonant choices that light you up and set the stage for sustainable growth.

What I don’t do: I don’t do fluff, corporate jargon, or cookie-cutter “fake it till you make it” advice. I don’t teach you to fit into the status quo.

I keep it real and support you in being clear, unapologetic, and unshakable in your leadership, vision, and voice.

My goal? To help you be the leader only you can be, and lead by example — in work, in life, and in the world.

Because we need more leaders like you to rise.

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Ways To Work Together

Clarity Intensive (1 session)

For leaders ready to cut the noise and step into clear next steps on a single goal now.

  • 90-minute deep-dive session

  • Strategic roadmap for your top priority challenge

  • Action steps you can implement immediately

  • One week of async follow-up email support

Total Investment: $600

Book Your Clarity Call

Foundational Leadership Partnership

For leaders ready to clarify their vision, take aligned action, and build momentum with structure and support.

  • 1x 60-minute Design Session

    Co-create your roadmap for growth and transformation.

  • 6x 50-minute Bi-weekly Coaching Sessions

  • Weekly Email Check-ins

Total Investment: $3200

(payment plans available)

Start Foundational Coaching

Expansive Leadership Partnership

For leaders who want deeper transformation and ongoing accountability to fully integrate change and build sustainable practices, rhythms, and radical transformation in their communication, confidence, and clarity moving forward.

  • 1x 60-minute Design Session

    Co-create your roadmap for growth and transformation.

  • 12x 50-minute Bi-weekly Coaching Sessions

    Strategic and mindset guidance for consistent progress.

  • Ongoing Email / Loom Support

    Ask one coaching question per week; receive practical guidance to keep moving forward.

  • Weekly Email Check-ins

Investment: $6800

(payment plans available)

Step into Expansive Partnership

What They Say

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I want to learn what brought you here and how we can help you. To schedule a chemistry call, first fill out the Coaching Interest Form below.

 
 
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Frequently Asked Questions

 
  • A Real You Leadership coach will email you with any of the following: with your match, with any additional questions if needed, a link to book a chemistry call.

  • During our call, we will talk about your unique goals and how we can align as your coach.

    If we determine that we are a good fit, we’ll take you through the next steps to get started.

    If not, we won’t pressure you or get salesy. We understand that this is an important decision and want the best for you.

  • We expect clients to prepare a topic and to make any necessary preparations to be fully present for our session.

    In the beginning of the session, we will invite you to ground, and we’ll co-create what we both need to feel safe and supported during the session. We will then ask you what you want coaching on and what you’d like out of the session. You are always at choice to choose, amend, update your topic and our coaching destination.

    Most of our time spent will be exploring, gaining clarity, processing, bringing awareness, checking for alignment, checking for any inner haters, challenging limiting beliefs, noticing how your body reacts, inviting you to connect to your inner wisdom, celebrating your growth and healing, and anything else you feel called to.

    We’ll guide you as the coach during this process through asking you open ended questions and reflecting back what you’ve shared. As your coach, we will also hold your goals you’ve set for yourself and connect back to them during our sessions.

    Towards the end of the session, we will invite you to commit to some kind of action to integrate what you’ve learned during your session.

    Our goal is for you to come to your own resonant decisions and for you reclaim your inner power and wisdom. We’re here to help you create a special, healing and safe container to connect back to yourself.

  • Our coaching packages are 3 or 6 months long. Each Month you have two 1-hr bi-weekly sessions. Prior to each of your sessions, you will need to prepare a topic and will be invited to fill out a pre-session reflection.

    Coaching is an energetic investment. You are getting radical support to take action, make changes, break cycles, make space to heal past trauma, step out of your comfort zone. It can be a lot, AND your coach will be there for you to hold and witness you through your incremental growth and transformation. We will celebrate you each step of the way.

  • No. This is purely 1:1 coaching. If you’re interested in group coaching, please visit our Activate Your Voice page for our 10-week BIPOC Women Leadership Cohort.

  • Our 1:1 Coaching is for and centered around the lilved experiences, leadership journeys, and systemic challenges of Black, Indigenous, Women, and Femmes of Color. We welcome trans women and non-binary people.

    That said — we occasionally make thoughtful exceptions when someone is deeply values-aligned, comes referred by a past client, and is seeking coaching from a place of genuine respect and self-awareness. If that’s you, feel free to reach out and share more — we’re open to having a conversation.

    If you’re looking to work with us in a way that supports equity at work, we also partner with allies through team coaching, leadership workshops, and culture-shifting engagements.

  • YES! We actually encourage you to ask your company first and utilize any professional development funds you have available.

    Coaching will help you grow as a leader. You will improve your communication and connection with your confidence. It’s a win-win for them to invest in your development.

  • A Real You Leadership Team member would be happy to chat with you. Please fill out our coaching interest form.

 
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